Finding a perfect partner is not the easiest task on the planet. It encompasses the effort of both parties to make it worth the try. When this not happening the way we predicted, things go wrong. The fact is, most times when we have issues when in a relationship, the negative signs would have been there earlier but we tend to overlook it. This is so, because most partners have the mentality that you can change the other person over a period of time. This is always wrong most times. These article is for the ladies to give you an idea of the type of men to avoid before its too late.
i. The nagging man:
Many men tend to nag and it’s very unattractive. If your man nags you at any slightest mis-understanding, we kindly advice you to avoid this type of men by all means possible.
ii. The controlling man:
Often, some women fall into the hands of controlling type of men. It may seem all rosy at the beginning and you may try to overlook it.The sign that the guy you are dating might appear to be controlling or power hungry - He wants to be the one in charge of everything at all times and not even wanting to give you a chance to voice your own opinions, then you might have to run from this one.
iii. The anger management man:
We used anger-management here because that is what he needs to calm himself down and be slow to anger. Most men knows how annoying women can be. Real men knows that sometimes, it is best to let the woman win and just to avoid any further arguments. Instead, if your gets upset at every little thing you say. That relationship will not likely work because he has a million and one days to put up with you. If he cannot, its better you step away and you move on.
iv. The malicious man:
We believe women seem to possess this attitude most. We believe this is another unattractive trait that real men should never display. If your have a man keeps malice with you most times, then we don't understand why he is still in your life.
v. The violent man:
Violence is rated the number one marriage wrecker. If your man ever tries to throw something at you, let alone, hit you, then he is a violent man. Do not be convinced that he was overwhelmed with anger. No reasonable man wants to hurt their loved ones, even when he is angry. For the ladies who believes that their man hits them because he loves them, well one day, he might kill you so run. Run as fast as possible before it’s too late.
vi. The negative man:
This type of man is very bad for our health. No lady wants anyone who has only negative comments about things all the time. You came up with this great business idea and you are so excited to table it to him but all he does is ask you what happens if it doesn’t work. Always negative. Anytime he asks this, ask yourself why the other person who did it succeeded, afterall, the individual does not possess two heads. Ite best to say bye to every form of negativity in your life.
vii. The demeaning man:
This type of man always brings you down in everything. He always makes you feel like you are not good enough in everything. Nothing you do is ever good enough for him. This is referred to as emotional violence. It is even far worse than physical violence because it makes you feel worthless about yourself. If you think your man has these traits, dump him to look for his kind.
viii. The vain man:
These type of man is more concerned about how he looks and what people thinks about him always. He'd outshine you when both of you are attending an event together. A regular man would love his woman to be beautiful not really keeping in mind how he might look. Don’t get it wrong; he'd look nice too but, we are referring to the selfish kinds who put themselves first before you. You don’t really want to end up with this type of man.
ix. The flirtatious man:
This is man who loves to flirt with other women not caring if you are present or not. He always love to be around the ladies and can also be referred to as the ladies’ man. A real man should have eyes for just his woman when she is there. It is disrespectful to your woman to flirting with other ladies in her presence. This type of man are up to no good. Just walk away from the relationship!
x. The mama’s boy (man):
We believe nothing is more unattractive than a man who runs to his mother at every little thing that happens to him. This man cannot take decisions by himself. He is apparently not independent. If you end up with this type of man, his mom would be the one dictating your relationship.
We believe no one is perfect and there is no rule book in relationships, but we believe these are a few issues you might want to avoid before it’s too late. Tell us your experience, please leave a comment...
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